What is Grinder

🌹What is Grinder toy?

A Grinder is a non-vibrating external stimulation sex toy. If you’re someone who enjoys grinding on pillows or objects during sex, a Grinder is absolutely worth jumping onto.
Similar to masturbators, the idea behind a Grinder is to build up to orgasm through rubbing. Grinding refers to rubbing your body or genitals against an object, surface, or partner for sexual pleasure.

There are many types of silicone Grinders. They’re usually soft with unique textures. When in use, the raised patterns, bumps, or ridges rub against your body, creating a stimulating and pleasurable sensation.

🌹Where to use？

You can use it anywhere you like. Grinders can stimulate the nipples, perineum (an area rich in nerve endings), clitoris, penis, and other external genital areas.

Types of Grinder

Cushion Grinders:
Also called grinding cushions. These are soft pads or pillow-like toys you sit or ride on. Their raised or textured surfaces increase stimulation.
Penetrable Grinders:
These include small penetrative parts while still offering strong external grinding sensations.
Grinding Pads:
Thicker pads or mats designed specifically for grinding. Some have raised textures, and some include vibration.
Grinders With Rings:
These include a ring or built-in structure that helps stabilize the toy, offering more control during grinding.

🌹How to use Grinder/Grinding Sex Toys？

Place the grinder on a pillow, chair, or flat surface you can ride, then straddle it to stimulate the vulva or penis.

You can use it together with vibrating toys for extra stimulation.

For smaller grinders, place it over your vulva or penis, hold it in your hand, and rub against it.

You can also put the grinder between you and your partner and grind your genitals together.

Larger or cushion-style grinders can be bent or positioned however you prefer during use.

🌹How to use Penis Grinder Pad?

① Preparation:
Before you begin, make sure Aphro is clean and in good condition. If desired, apply a water-based lubricant to enhance comfort and pleasure.

② Exploration:
Take your time to feel Aphro’s unique textures and features. Try different grips, angles, strokes, and pressure levels to discover what feels best for you.
Sensual Massage:
You can also glide Aphro gently over your body—or your partner’s. Focus on erogenous zones or areas of tension for a relaxing, arousing massage that deepens intimacy.

③ Solo Play:
For solo pleasure, wrap Aphro around the penis or your desired body part and move it in a rhythmic up-and-down motion. Try different speeds and pressure levels to find the most satisfying sensations. Relax, breathe, and stay focused on what your body enjoys.
Partner Play:
When using Aphro with a partner, communicate clearly about desires and boundaries. Incorporate Aphro into foreplay or intercourse, allowing your partner to tease, rub, or stimulate you with it. This can heighten pleasure and strengthen intimacy for both of you.

④ Creative Play:
Place the grinder pad inside your underwear and rub it against your sensitive areas for hands-free stimulation.
You can even place it inside a cup to create a simple, makeshift masturbator—get creative with what feels good.

⑤ Clean-Up:
After use, wash Aphro thoroughly with mild soap and warm water. Make sure it’s completely dry before storing it in a clean, discreet place.

🌹Grinding in Sex

Grinding in sex is an intimate, flexible way to stimulate sensitive areas. By using steady, controlled motion—whether on a partner, a toy, or a surface—you can build arousal gradually and enjoy direct, focused stimulation. Many people love grinding because it allows them to explore their body, discover new erogenous zones, and deepen physical connection at their own pace.

Everyone’s preferences are different, so feel free to adapt these suggestions based on what feels comfortable and pleasurable for you.